substitute for love.
People who have experienced emotional deficiencies
in childhood carry within themselves unresolved Problems
that become the motive that motivates them,
While they are looking for a substitute for love.
Food as a substitute for love.
The lack of love and affection is experienced with
real physical pain form.
Many times Food is a great solution in order not to feel the pain.
Overeating is also a process of self destruction.
Its restore unconsciously the feeling of rejection and lack of belonging that they have experienced during childhood.
This also can causes social rejection.
It is also possible to treat overeating as aggression
regarding our self.
Instead of pulling it out of our system we eat.
Many times we try kinds of diet but not successful
or we manage to hold on shortly.
We fail because we do not solve the source of the problem.
That is the lack of Love and affection unconditionally.